The Other Side of the story

I have often heard that there's two sides of a story: the truth and the lie.
It might seem in my world (as influenced by Psychology, Literature,
Philosophy and Law) that there are infinite sides of a story- what
counts is which one you are willing to listen to. It is 9:20pm as I
write this hoping that you know there's more to you than your flaws
and shortfalls. Your yesterday, today, right now all form part of you-
only question is 'Who are you going to listen to?' Is it your
yesterday, today or right now?

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How can one change the world if one identifies oneself with everybody?