I finally have my way and instead of feeling very happy I feel calm, is that how it's supposed to be?Don't act like you don't know what I am talking about, well...let's put it this way, things are great between Prince Charming and I. We talked a lot of things through and he could only laugh when I told him- and he said that it was cool because he liked me for my weirdness and inability to stay still- (though that sounded downright weird) I had to accept that he did see through the part of me that I had shared with him.
So, I'm learning to live. I am also learning to open up and share my dreams and fears- because if I do not tell him then there's no way he'll know how to support me.
I am also asking him his aspirations- and this is the question my mother always asks my friends "what are your aspirations?"
She also asks "where do you come from? Who are your parents and what do they do? What is the one thing they've taught you that you are grateful for?"
So, if you are dating someone and you are hoping for a long term commitment, don't wait to get all panicky like me. Ask them:
- What are your aspirations?
- Can you cultivate me? (Or will you improve me so that together we are a formidable force?)
- How can I improve you? If so, will you listen to my views and work with me to help make you better?